Believe it or not, last week for the FIRST time in six years of parenting, we rushed to the emergency room for an injury. Not that I think visiting the ER is the norm for most people, but if you know my children and know how physical, active, adventurous, and fearless they are, it is a little shocking that we have not been regulars at the place. And even harder to believe, this first trip was not for Caleb, our first born who has always trudged through life head first. No, it was for our sweet second born, Seth, who usually procedes a bit more cautiously through the day to day.
Yes, there have been a lot of blood and band-aids around our house over the past few weeks. First,
Caleb's mystery night time gash and then last Monday, while playing football (yes, football) in the playroom, Seth tripped and hit the futon arm in just the right spot, splitting open his little cheek. Yes, that sweet, impossible not to kiss, little cheek. Poor buddy!
You know, after you have had a few years of parenting under your belt and learn your children, you know when a cry can be ignored, because it is simply a whine. If you react to every single wimper or pout that your child lets out each day, you will go completely insane. Or at least that is my theory. However, you always know the cry that your little one lets out that is an immediate call to action. No sitting around, no "wait just a minute." No, when you hear the "for real" cry, your parental instincts propel you from your position and you make it to your child at warp speed, not even knowing how you got there so quickly. This was the cry that Seth let out. And within two seconds, both Eric and I and Aunt B and Uncle Bill (I guess aunt and uncle instincts work similarly) were at his side. Actually I was the last one to get to him, but that was only because I was upstairs and had a farther distance to travel. So, maybe it took me more like four seconds. Either way, by the time I made it to my hysterical son, Eric was holding a wash cloth on his face and saying, "It doesn't look good." And it didn't. Not one bit.
Let me stop here and tell you a little bit about providence and about a God who is totally in control. Oh, what a sovereign God we serve. And oh, how thankful I am that He has always got us covered! For the past four years, Eric has worked nearly every Monday night at Sorenson. The only time he is not at work on Monday is when we are out of town. Well, it just so happened that on this particular Monday night he was not working. Also, Aunt B and Uncle Bill just happened to be visiting us on this particular Monday night. Out of all of the Monday nights in the world, it was this Monday night. So, on a night when it is usually just me home with the boys by myself, I was surrounded by lots of help and support.
There are no coincidences. I am thankful to serve a God who always provides for our needs and knows exactly when and what we will need to get through a situation. Or freak accident.
Aunt B and Uncle Bill stayed with Caleb, while Eric and I took off with Seth. We opted to take Seth to the Vanderbilt Walk-in clinic instead of the actual emergency room. We were hoping for a quicker wait time and faster service and that is just what we got. We were in and out in an hour. We had a great nurse named Patti, just like Memaw, and opted for the glue and steristrips, instead of stitches and sedation, which probably would have resulted in a trip to the actual ER. Seth was such a trooper! He did so well until the very end when I think he was hungry (this all occured while we were cooking dinner) and just ready to go.
After dinner and brave big boy popsicle, he was just fine!
Yes, although Workman boys have really hard heads, they are not completely invinsible. Seth is healing well and loves that he gets to wear a bandaid on his face most days.
Hopefully, we are finished with these crazy freak accidents for a while.